http://www.boston.com/lifestyle/relationships/articles/2011/01/16/geek_love_can_a_gaming_and_fantasy_fanatic_find_romance_outside_his_realm/
Of course, it isn't the article that I'm concerned about, it's the comment section that caught my interest. Argh, these guys can REALLY make me mad.
My calm collected response is as follows:
Looking at the comments, I'd say that most of the haters here have never actually met a nerd, and are drawing from the stereotypes they learned by being lied to by Disney. This is also why girls these days are always disappointed in their boyfriends, because they grew up on a diet of Disney's Prince Charming stereotype of the ideal mate.
Prince Charming does technically exist, but he tends to not be AT ALL loyal to anyone, as he is always the type who believed porn. Always asking "Where is my insatiable......hypersexuality patient?" I wouldn't recommend him, I recommend the nerd.
Nerds these days are different than what you guys say we are. We are more adaptable than you think, we just don't show it when we're in public, especially at Comic Con.
The modern nerd is a bit attractive, highly skilled at logic and reasoning, fiercely loyal, hypersensitive to emotion, and eager to please. Furthermore, there is no longer a general "nerd" classification. We have a whole set of subnerds. We have music nerds, anime nerds, otaku, band geeks (I'm a subnerd of band geek, ClariNerd, get it?), orch dork, science guy, etc.... We also have multiple specialties.
Now, about that jock you girls were attracted to in high school.
Could he sing? In tune and correctly, I mean? Could he play a musical instrument? Was he sensitive to your every need? Was he tender? Could he help you with your homework? Could he fix your computer/cellphone/ipod? Probably not.
I'll tell you what he could do, though: Sit in the couch all day, drink beer, know far more info about sports than is considered healthy, always loud and vulgar, and permanently obsessed with control.
Which would you prefer? Someone who cares what you want/need/think, or someone who walks all over you without any thoughts for how you feel about it?
I know which way I'd lean.
When it's something I really care about, I can get some very good writing out there....